SEX
IS NOT A CRIME:
Sex is God’s idea. God created sex.
He created male and female and he made
them attractive to each
other, for procreation (reproduction) and pleasure. Since it was
created by God, sex
cannot be sin, but it should be with only one person i.e. life partner.
Attraction is quite common; it doesn’t mean
that you have
to enter into sexual
relation with
all of them. In such cases sex is a crime.
PREMARITAL
SEX AND ITS IMPLICATIONS:
Until some
years ago premarital
sex was out
rightly condemned as
a sin and
anyone who had sex
before marriage was looked down upon. Therefore there was a fear
in
the hearts of youth. Even if they secretly committed the sex they used to feel
guilty.
The first sex
will be in the mind for ever. If you
marry the same person it may not show
much difference, but
in case if you marry other only god can know your pain. Real y your
life
will become hell.
Especially the
girls should be
careful about the
tremendous consequences of
sexual
union if the boy changes his mind after the event. She will disappoint much and
they never come out
of that until unless some miracle happens. Her disappointment may
be such that she
might never be able to offer herself trustfully again to another man. The
memory of
the first man
will haunt her
lifelong. Often, she
would find it
difficult to find
another partner
because of the prejudice (injustice) of society i.e. boys against girls who
are supposed to have
lost their virginity. The consequences
of an eventual
pregnancy
are too
serious to contemplate
(think). Even if
the girl gets
married with other
person, something will
be lacking in the freshness
in the union.
Girl can never
be happy if it happens in
their life. So my dear
girls be careful
before taking any
decision or doing anything.
FIRST
SEX:
Sexual union is nature’s bonding
agent. Our first sexual involvement leaves an
indelible
(impossible to remove) imprint. We are never the same again after sex-we are
part of someone else.
This bonding is weakened by change of partner, and therefore the
more
we change partners the weaker our capacity for staying together will be.
So, if we have only one love,
sex in marriage carries more weight, has a bigger
binding
effect, has more significance, and means more to us, than if it were second or
the
third time around. Every woman leaves herself behind with the man she has
sexual
intercourse
with, so in a very real sense she ‘is giving herself away’. If we do this with
more
than one, there will be nothing left to
give to the second one or third.
It’s not only for girls; even boys will face
the same problem, because, girls as
well as boys have got, single heart which has
feelings. My dear boys and girls remember
one
thing, you may cheat anyone in this world, but you can’t cheat your heart.
Please,
never cheat or play
with the life of others; it’s a request from my side because I myself
had the traces of it
in my life. I’ am leading a lifeless life with lot of pain inside. I can’t live in this world, I
can’t leave this
world. I don’t know
how is my
future going to be.
So, I don’t
want any other to get into this kind of problems.
SEX
OUTSIDE MARRIAGE:
Deviant (unusual) sexual practice
insults God’s beautiful design of our bodies,
and
degrades woman. It denies the family ideal and has nothing to do with the
children.
Sex before
marriage hurts because
it reduces something
new to the
level of second-hand
goods. It remains like a scar in your mind, and hurts throughout their life.
Sex with
others when one
is married to
someone else deeply
wounds the
partner Left behind,
and breaks the
solemn marriage vow
of fidelity (trustworthiness) or
faithfulness.
