BE
CAUTIOUS:
Teenage is such an innocent period that you
tend to trust the person who is close, friendly, or
who advances you. Especially if your home offers no love, you
tend to fall into the open
arms of the one who comes your way. Then one day you face the hard choice, “if you love
me, come to bed with me.” If you refuse he may leave you. You are
made to
believe he will
marry you and
you his queen.
But this is
an emotional tactic.Deflowering innocent
virgins is a game for many boys. Remember, virginity once lost is forever lost.
You cannot let it back.
That feeling and
traces of first
sex haunts you throughout
your life. Think twice and thrice before taking any decision.
It was not only in case of
girls, boys too face the same problem. There are too
many play
girls who will
sell their souls
for a sex
trip or for
satisfying their personal needs.
Boys should keep away from such sex bombs.
There are another category of
girls and boys who loves you lot. They/you may
have sexual relation
with you/her, but we can’t trustful y tel
you that he/she wil be with
you forever.
The reason is her family;
she can’t hurt
her parents or
you. In such
situations she/he may
leave you by scarifying you and her/his whole life for the sake of
her/his parents. If
you predict such problems in the initial days it has a clear idea of what
to do. If not, if the
day comes where you have to decide one of the both .i.e. parents or
the partner
it will be so painful and unable to
digest.
My advice
is when such
problems arise be
cool, patient and
take decisions together i.e.
Along with the
one with whom
you want to
share your life.
Don’t take decisions by your
own; it’s not your life alone. Try to compromise your parents. It can be done if you are in
well settled position. So first settle in life. My belief is that if the person is good
well settled and if you feel
your life can be
happy
with him/hers somehow get married;
later your parents will join you, because every parent want their children to
be happy.
