Tuesday 30 January 2007

Marriage Is a Holy Relation-4


IMPORTANT ELEMENTS IN A HEALTHY MARRIAGE:

·   Love, caring, trust, commitment and intimacy (understanding).
·   Being as one without getting separated in the hard times (problems).
·   Good communication between each other.
·   Sharing  –involves  sharing  thoughts,  information,  happiness,  problems  and activities.
·   Adaptability-accepting the other as unique (exceptional).
·   Tolerance-acceptance of negative traits (behavior).
·   Integrity; being dependable and trustworthy.
·   Having sense of humor.
·   Respecting the partner’s ideas, thoughts, wishes.
·   Sex-sexual fulfillment.
QUALITIES REQUIRED TO ENSURE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP:
·    If you really want to live with the partner then only you enter into their life, if not
please don’t enter into their life and give a lifelong pain to them.
·   Ability to give and receive love.
·   Readiness to share and build a relationship.
·    Ability  to  work  through  problems  without  leaving  the  partner  i.e.  being  together forever even in the odd times.
·   Adaptability and flexibility.
·   Emotional stability i.e. expressiveness.
·   Ability to communicate everything.
·    Readiness to sacrifice yourself to keep the other happy, that to if he/she deserves
your sacrifice.

·   Love your partner as long as you can and as much as you can.